"You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks."
--- Winston Churchill
Over the last few years, I've written many a blog post about clearing out my closet -- carefully culling through my collection of clothes, figuring out what to keep, what to give away, and trying not to feel bad about past shopping decisions.
Well. That process is never-ending, I've decided. I'm still culling. Every once in a while, I add something new. But for the most part, it's a whittling down.
But that's not what this blog post is about.
No. This blog post is about a quite different collection. But let's stay with the closet metaphor for a bit.
You see, I am a Great Chaser of Shiny Objects.
I have many commitments and interests, and I enjoy pursuing them in a rather deep way from time to time. Gardening, for example. Or art. Various fiber crafts. Photography. Community volunteering. (I'm sure you get the idea.) I tend to keep . . . adding things. But rarely subtracting.
But . . . pursuing too many things means you don't have time to pursue anything well. It's like the Churchill quote at the top of this post. If I keep spreading myself too thin, I'll never get anywhere. And it's actually kind of stressful -- to have all these things I want to DO, but never have time to actually do them.
So, I've decided that it's time to do some culling . . . in this, my year of Focus. Like my closet. Only not with clothes.
I expect that this will be a challenging process. Because I like All the Things. But, realistically, I can't DO All the Things. Now that I've admitted and accepted this, it's time to deal with it.
If I can KonMari my closet, why not the rest of my life?
Take everything out.
Really look at it.
Touch it; try it on again.
Does it bring you joy????
Sort: Keep - Toss - Maybe
It's time to begin.