As I wrote on Friday, I've got a lot of "projects" going on. These aren't life-and-death kinds of projects. Just things I want to (or need to) do so I can function more efficiently in the world. And feel better about my surroundings. And, shoot. . . just so I can find things when I need them!
I dug in.
First, I made a list - "brainstorm" style - of all the various "projects" in my mind.
(I often think this way. Just sort of free-form, topical lists where I can "think" on paper, and draw and highlight as the mood strikes.)
Right away, I could see that some of my "projects" (organizing my sewing/crafting room, for example) are really independent of all the other "projects", and can be completed on their own. Some of the "projects", though, are totally dependent on other "projects," and require my completing pre-requistites . . . first.
For example, I want to finish setting up my newly-painted guest room/small office (formerly known as Erin's room).
But, to do that, I need to move a bookcase (housed in Brian's room) into the new room.
And to do that, I need to empty the bookcase.
And to do that, I need to find a place for the emptied items.
And that . . . dovetails into another "project": Going through the "leavings" from Erin and Brian; sorting and re-packing the "savers", and readying those items for storage.
Which actually bumps up against another entire "project": Re-organizing that portion of my house that we lovingly call "TinyTown." **
Clearly, it's a total Give-a-Mouse-a-Cookie situation. . .
I needed to identify the linchpin in my project plan. I needed to figure out where to begin. . . so that everything else could start sliding into place.
And when I started studying my list . . . I could see where I needed to start. And I amost cried . . . just sat down on the stairs and cried . . . when I realized that my linchpin . . . was BRIAN'S ROOM!!!
Any of you readers who have/have had college-age boys know the depths of my despair. And those of you who don't have college-age boys . . . well . . . their rooms-at-home are a frightening place. They are, in fact, everything you might imagine/fear them to be.
Sure, their rooms-at-home only contain the Things-They-Left-Behind. You know. . . the high school detritus; the childish items and random toys; the collections they can't bear to part with; that sort of thing. (And, really, how tough is that?)
But there is also . . . other stuff. Crusty . . . things. Stains of unknown origin. A summer's worth of empty Gatorade bottles tossed casually under the bed. Hidden (ahem) magazine stashes. Old teeth. (Yes.) Things you would rather not have to deal with. But, because you are a Mother, you just do.
And so. I did.
Not pretty. But clean. And tidy. And dusted.
It's a start! (And the bookcase got moved as well!)
** I'll tell you about TinyTown some other day. (I'm sure you can hardly wait. . . )